Wednesday, 22 July 2015

5 TYPES OF GUYS TO AVOID..

   After seeing this topic I know some guys will just roll their eyeballs..Yes roll it! If you are among any category of guys am about to mention.I have absolutely nothing against the male clan(of course am straight!) but it's just natural for me to tend to support the ladies and know more about guys and what they do to us! Out of my own little experience,here are five types of guys you should try to avoid! A grown man is usually hard to change unless he decides to change on his own!
     1)Baby let's see how it goes:- Issalie!!!! Don't fall for it! It's not going anywhere! A guy that can't make up his mind about what he wants from you from the beginning will probably not want anything serious eventually! He's saying lets see how it goes but at the same time wants to have a taste of your merchandise! He's only trying to be on a safer side! You can't complain when you see him with other chics,or when he doesn't call or pick yours! Why? Because apparently you people are not dating! Even when he's done with you he's not expecting you to cry or call him a heartbreaker because he told your desperate self from the beginning that 'let's see how it goes'  if he wants to see how it goes,he shouldn't be expecting full privilege Na.This type of boys are very unserious especially if you are in desperate need of a boyfriend,Just dust your bata and move to the next eligible bachelor! 80% of let's see how it goes leads to nothing! You peoplewould just grind eachother for a long time and you'll be impressing him so much hoping one day he'll elevate you! You will turn to a ninja and vixen in bed,chef in the kitchen! Just save yourself the stress of asking 'so what are we' every time,move away!!
     2)Have got lots of plans:- So this bobo has been asking you out for a while now and when you ask him so what do u do,you'll hear things like 'am an IT consultant' 'am a freelance marketer' 'am a business man',ok no big deal! There's no day bros will ever tell you he just got back from work,or work was stressful! He's always pinging 24/7! Please is it Ghost that this bobo is working for? He'll keep saying 'mehn I need to hammer,I have to make it in life,i don't want my children to suffer like I did,I have to be richer than my grandfather' in the babes narrow mind you'll think you have seen ambitious man! If you ask him so what are you doing towards achieving all these goals,he'll reply with 'baby calm down,I have plans'! Bros no get degree oh,he no learn trade,and he's not even working! Is he planning ritual? Most of the time these kind of boys just have vision but are too lazy to carry it out! Just do yourself the favour of finding someone else that would challenge you and help you become a better woman!
      3)Woman beater:-I can't seem to stop talking about this point! A man that lays his hand on you the first time and you stick around would still do it again and again! Am sorry to announce to you,he won't change! Stop hoping! I have talked about this topic in my second post so I won't wanna bore us with it again! No matter the promises he makes the first time or how hard he tries to entice you he,the same cycle will still repeat itself! You'll date a guy that abuses you physically and you'll still go ahead  to marry him! Mehn my sister I have no comment for you! People have lost their life's,and body parts all because of men like this! Don't let anyone put sand sand in your fine garri abeg! Shift far away!!!
       4)Self centered boys:-All they know or think about is themself and their little brain downstairs! These kinda boys will use all their money to buy iphone 6 and timberland(oh how I hate those things) but won't buy ordinary milk for their girlfriend if she falls sick! Their one naira can never fall into your hand! It's complaints all the time but they can chill with the guys and pay for all the henessy in the club! When it's that time of the night whether you want sugar or not they will obtain it from you by force! Everything they do is right,make one mistake and you are in for it! Self love is essential,but not to the point of leaving little love for others!
      5)Insultive boys:-these boys are dangerous! they will strip you off of any self confidence or self esteem you have left! They will give u 5naira and expect you to worship them for the rest of your life! Any little argument you two get into,he starts to call you names even adds your parents to it.He reminds you constantly that if not for him you'll still be suffering.When he's angry you are all his to vent and rant to.This will only cause you more emotional trauma daily.Save your heart,reputation and parents the disgrace kindly move far away!
       Am not an expert in these things though but my dear brothers and sisters,my eyes have seen quite a bit and here I am giving out my own opinion......

9 comments:

  1. wow just dis morning I saw d link 2 ur blog and I said I'd read thru every single post so wen got back from exam I decided to keep 2 my promise and which I did in ur voice "I read ur blog as if my life depended on it" *shines teeth* btw I've had a nice time going thru ur blog lovely sense of humour and u seem like someone whose eyes have seen nice one dear keep d good work up *thumbs up*

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    1. Thank you very much for taking your time to go through it all,I also appreciate the comments.

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  3. Nice one, hope you write the other version.

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  4. Ore, I think you are absolutely correct. Lot of ladies die silently in domestic violence.

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  5. Lol nice piece,was reading to see if I would fall into any of the 5 categories, thank God I didn't..I guess I am okay.
    You should definitely write the female version of this post because we(guys) also have our bitter experiences

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    1. Lol better confess.thanks will definitely work on the female version

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