The 'art' and 'act' of giving head,blowjob,oral sex....whatever you people call it in ur various bedroom,kitchen or even inside the car,has become an important or not so important criteria among various people..
Just in case you didn't know the original Oyinbo word for these things are 'FELLATIO'(the use of mouth in sexually satisfying one's penis,by another) and 'CUNNIGLINGUS'(the use of the mouth in sexually satisfying one's vagina,by another) don't worry this isn't another sexual post! Harlot!!!!!
Overtime,have met a couple of people that would do anything to receive or give head and some would hate you forever if you ever bring up the topic! I was in the room with a friend and I was commenting on how fresh her laps was(am not a lesbian!!! Am straight!!) and I jokingly said your boyfriend won't mind giving you head o..The look she gave me was hilarious and could lower even a president's self esteem,she finally replied with 'ki lo ma so pe oun' wa labe mi' (what will he say he's looking for under me) I laughed so hard my ribs hurt! Another male friend of mine once said he can never give any babe head for any reason,I asked him what if he was tied down and the babe opens it all on his face? He simply replied with 'ehn I'll let her bring it and bite off her clitoris' very mean somebody!! On the other hand,some guys will tell you that if a girl's head game is on point,they could wife her up almost immediately,and some girls will also say a man that gives head is husband material..different strokes for different folks abi how them they talk am?
Also,in giving head I guess expertise matters too,don't just go there and plug all your teeth like its corn! Easy tiger!! We don't want bruises down there you know..some couples also fight on whether to give head or not! Find someone that satisfy's you sexually,because as much as we all hate to admit it because we are from Africa and we are not supposed to like sex or talk abt it bla bla bla,Sex is a very important criteria in any relationship.
I know by now some of you will be wondering what my own personal take on this topic is.Ok I'll tell you,as a bonafide CAC member,our pastor said we must not like things like this but if not for our pastor ehn I would have......ok that's it!! Before pastor himself see's this!! If you don't mind,you can share your own opinion about this topic too.Don't worry your pastor won't see this too!!