MISS INDEPENDENT.

   At one point in life,every woman wants to be 'Miss Independent' some of us get to achieve this and some of us don't(we just end up marrying one rich alhaji that pays all the bills).Women are usually seen as the weaker vessel most times but some women actually do have goals.Some women are lucky enough to always meet men that pays the bills and does all the buying,as for me ehn 'shi shi' I no dey see.If you are in my shoes too don't worry it's not that old woman from your village that is doing you,it's just the way God has designed you.My aunt used to say women that don't get to meet men that spend lavishly are going to be more successful in their career(shey you see,you gotta work for your own money)
   Whenever I get to meet one rich bobo and I fink yes it's time to eat the fruit of my labour,na lie I'll still be as broke as ever.Aka gum boys(stingy boys).During my third year,I supposedly hit jackpot! Just like that I met a guy willing to celebrate my birthday for me(I barely even throw parties) I relunctantly turned down the offer hoping he won't agree too but the guy kept on persisting.He'll say 'baby no o,owo yi wa(the money is there) let me celebrate your birthday bring your friends' I agreed and I brought five of my friends.JUST five oh,I didn't overpass my boundary.Apparently,bros brought the whole crew and gang to the club.Awon hype men club yen' le ko eyan si gbese(the hype men in the club can make you run into a debt) they were shA hailing him oh,he was popping,they will hail again he will pop oh till he spent a reasonable amount of money(it's the hype man's fault not mine na) I admit I was high after the party but I already instructed my friends to make sure I get home safe because I wasn't ready to give anyone sugar! Lol the guy vexed oh that after everything I ran away without paying in kind! I successfully maneuvered my way through that day but I didn't know trouble awaits me! Few weeks later,his friends cornered me at the filling station and seized  all my belonging(phones,chain,na only my cloth remain wey then no comot) the jackpot I thought I finally hit was trouble pot! I had to pack different people to start begging and pleading on my behalf before they left me.
     No man will want to help a woman without wanting some sugar darling.it has become a normal phenomenon in our society today.You will say 'send me credit na' you will hear 'show me your boobs'.This is why it's advisable most times to always be on a safer side,work for your money darling! Don't get me wrong oh,an not saying if you jam someone nice enough to lavish his money on  you,you should now turn Him down! Enjoy it while it lasts,but when you learn to make your own money it lasts forever! When you make your own money legally,you won't be forced to give anyone sugar in exchange for money,the sugar giving will be something from your heart and not as a form of payment....