SAY NO TO 'BABY IT WAS THE DEVIL'

Domestic violence is an issue that fails to go into extinction! Boda boyfriend comes up with lots of excuses for his actions(baby jor it was d henney at work not me,am sorry baby its the devil)hian it was all you and your temper! This particular topic reminds me of this fine babe in my hostel.She lives with her boyfriend(its more like her boyfriend camps with her because she owns the room).On a normal Saturday morning,you'll see this sister and her boyfriend doing laundry together,fetching water together and they'll make u ask yourself where u were when they were sharing such an adorable boyfriend! Now Fast Forward to some few hours later,its table scattering,hot slaps flying around the air,juicy ibo curses and no one dares seperate them.Even after all this chaos,they still come back together and I always wondered why,not until I had my own personal experience! Mr S(now my ex before the boy beats the living daylight out of me) likes drinking but can't handle it.I'll explain myself chill,give Mr S two bottles of Harp at your party and once he's done with d 2nd bottle just end your party straight oh,cos its going to be unnecessary fights and argument garnished with violence,I usually end up been the victim,chopping slap in private and public places.If we(myself and his friends) eventually manage to bundle him in a car home,i'll hear myself vowing not to go back to him! Na lie! Mr S has his strategies too,thats when he'll give me his ATM card(with tears)to withdraw whatever amount I want and treat myself out! As a 'longthroat' i'll accept his apologies(who no like better thing),this went on for two years and his excuse was always ALCOHOL and yet,he refused to stop drinking! Reality dawned on me when MR S gave me sweet lashes of his belt like say I steal(and he wasn't even high on alcohol that day).All am trying to say is this,domestic violence should stop,no woman deserves to be beaten up for any reason.Women dust your 'bata' too and don't be tempted to stay with a man that hits you.You deserve better than been someone's punching bag,i know you might be thinking 'if i leave him where will I start from',have you also thought about the fact that if he kill's you he's going to keep living his life(and you'll probably be in one corner crying in your white cloak while watching your man knack another woman's apako).Our strong men,i hail una oh! Please change and give the woman you claim to love rest of mind.